Remember when
1) Social was a dance – now it’s on online trend defining popular culture
2) Networking was something you did for a job promotion now it means linkedin, Facebook and MySpace
3) Google was Barney’s last name – a popular comic strip – it was used in Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy and now is in the dictionary. If you don’t know who Barney Google is – just ‘google it’.
4) Friend was a person you had a trusting, supportive, affectionate relationship with … now it’s someone you invite to your blog, Twitter, Facebook etc… site
This last piece “friend” is interesting.
“With strangers connecting and friending each other out there, are social networks actually changing the definition of the word ‘friend?”
http://blogme.dium.com/content/2008/09/social-networks-changing-the-definition-of-friend/ (Link for above blog quote).
Jennifer also made a comment in her blog that the ideal number of social networks to belong to is “7”. I would be interested to find out how many of you belong to “7” … how many less, how many more? Jennifer says she is maxed at 5 – with only a limited amount of time to monitor all these web spaces.
http://www.onteenstoday.com/2008/07/22/serial-friending-how-facebook-is-changing-the-definition-of-friendship/
In the link above, from the mouth of a 15 year old, she said the allure of “friending” on Facebook is just accumulating as many friends as possible as a guage to your popularity. She defines the Facebook friends as:
Fake Friends. After you have become accustomed to the system of serial friendships on Facebook, you begin to forget what friendship used to mean and gradually assimilate to the system. While it may have taken months to wear down your resistance, eventually you receive that friendship request from the person who is not really your friend, who you know that they know you are not friends and you accept their friend request nonetheless.
As part of popular culture, I think this will be an interesting trend to follow – how society will continue to re-define “friend”. Hey, do you think the dictionary will add a new definition of friend as that part of social networking piece? They added google.
Social networking has changed the way we communicate and is changing the look of our community. But at least it is just that – the communicating – that helps humanize the WWW, our information community.
Friend, anyone?
Linda J